Moving out of my own way!

Often times we blame others or things as obstacles in our lives. If "I had a car, I would go more places" "If I had a degree I would have a better job"  "If I would have never gotten married, my life would be so much better." If...If...If...
We always find someone/something else to accuse for our trials. That if we only take a minute to own up to our fallen realities, we in fact would realize that WE ARE HOLDING OURSELVES UP.

It's really hard to accept responsibilities when we are at fault for our own issues in life.We rarely want to take the position of pointing the finger back at ourselves. Are you where you exactly want to be in life? If not, why not? What is the real reason why you aren't moving forward in life, is it procrastination, lack of dedication, or refusal to accept the change that needs to take place in your lifestyle? Whatever the reason might be, the answer mostly ends in you.

We have to learn how to accept and fess up to our own mistakes in the fortitude of daily living. Every small decision we make in the beginning has a larger consequence at the end. It is up to us to draw the pictures of our storybook life and no one else. We can be our very own obstacle and sometimes we must push our normal selves to the side and step out of our comfort zone, in order to accomplish goals we might be too afraid to complete. If we consistantly affirm our goals and benchmarks we would remember what we are working towards and not what we are not receiving.

Everyone has a situation, a struggle, and obstacles...but how you work on accepting resonsibilities is where the true fight comes in.  Let's stop making excuses for our setbacks and start making preparations for our comebacks!